Overview of the course
Skill 1: Cooperation: How to get to them to do what you need them to do!
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Introduction to Choices (2:55)
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Setting the boundary and giving two empowering choices (5:24)
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The mistake most parents make at this stage (2:26)
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Setting the boundary and giving them the third choice which they create (4:27)
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Setting the boundary and leaving the HOW up to them (2:22)
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Which of these default techniques do you use to get them to cooperate with you? (3:06)
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Advice from other parents on how to master these skills (3:36)
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And if this doesn't work for you, this may be why... and what try instead (4:10)
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Teachers.... this course is SACE accredited for Professional Points!
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Summary and recap of CHOICES (1:37)
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Test yourself on the GIVING CHOICES skill
Skill 2: Boundaries: How to get them motivated to do what you want them to do
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Introduction to "Share what you need" (2:33)
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Share what you need instead of what you don't want (6:58)
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Share where they can do what you don't want them to do now (9:09)
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4 Quadrants of conscious learning (3:10)
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Advice from other parents on how to master these skills (1:52)
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Test yourself on how quick your mind-to-speak ratio is.... (4:06)
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And if this doesn't work for you, this may be why... and what to try instead (4:24)
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Summary and recap of SHARE WHAT YOU NEED (0:49)
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Test yourself on the SHARE WHAT YOU NEED SKILL
Skill 3: Perseverance: How to get them to persevere and not just give up!
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Introduction to "SUPPORTING THE STRUGGLE" (5:42)
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Respecting the struggle (12:00)
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How to get them to resolve their own problem and avoid over functioning for them (2:16)
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The permission question unlocks the resentment they may feel towards you. (2:41)
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How to give advice in such a way they will listen and probably take it. (2:32)
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And if this doesn't work for you, this may be why... and what try instead (3:09)
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Summary and recap of 'Supporting their struggle' (0:46)
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Test yourself on the Supporting Struggle skills
Course conclusion
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